Small Southern Town

What do you love about where you live?

I love where I live because it’s beautiful, quaint, and comfortable. It’s also filled you all kinds of options. I’ve always been a “small town girl,” and while growing up, I always thought I’d live in the same small town forever, raising my kids and living in a “little white house with a little white picket fence.”

Well, God kinda had different plans for me. Since moving from my home town, I’ve lived in 2 states, 5 towns, and 1 city. I’ve gone to 3 schools, lived in 12 houses, and have been actively involved in 6 churches. And 3 of those towns have been while raising our sons. But each have been small towns, at least in the scale of metropolitan areas.

And truthfully, I’ve loved every town I’ve lived in. That’s just being content in where you are and who you’re with, but that’s another blog for another day.

So, you ask why I love where I live… it’s a small town that really has grown quite a bit since we moved here. However, we live on the outskirts of town, and we don’t normally deal with the busier side. Our city officials have taken great care to beautify the downtown, moderate what comes in and out, and worked hard to keep that “small town feel” to the area.

I love our church, the people, and the atmosphere of community and family. I love our neighborhood that is well kept, and the people are always friendly. I love that we’re located just minutes from the lake, a few more minutes from the mountains, and less than an hour from a major city. So, you can be anywhere you want within a short amount of time. And I love that we live in an area where people still long for togetherness and a sense of camaraderie among the (smaller) masses.

And I believe that’s what builds love for where you live. When it’s all about you and yours and competition, stress, strife, and success, I believe you loose that sense of community and forsake care and compassion for cutthroat self ambition and ego.

You don’t have to live in a small town to achieve this, but I think it helps. However, I’ve had friends who live living in a big city, and they have still accomplished this by creating a community of family, whether it be in their neighborhoods, churches, or workplace. Where it is doesn’t matter as much as with whom it is. If you are gathered together with likeminded people, accomplishing a common goal for a greater purpose, that sense of family and belonging will naturally arise.

So, what about you? What do you love about where you live?

Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion. Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.

Romans 12:15-18

4 thoughts on “Small Southern Town

  1. Both North and South were home to me. We also lived in England for two years. There are fantastic people everywhere. We were blessed to have great neighbors. I’m pleased that I loved everywhere I lived. The mountains are the best, but maybe that’s because I’m here now.

    My church was very small-town. God was there. We were active in the church on Long Island and occasionally worshipped at St. John the Divine, St Mary the Virgin, and one that we went to most often — the name escapes me this moment. We were in the Vatican once, worshipped at St Marks in Venice on Easter Sunday, and had a fantastic Christmas in Munich with friends. From time to time we went to Westminster Abbey. Westminster Cathedral, and other cathedrals scattered around England. How rich our lives were! And God was everywhere.

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  2. Like you, I grew up in a small Southern town among wonderful people. Moving from a college dorm to Queens NY was culture shock. I never saw or spoke to people in our apartment building! We did make friends at church, though. For 50 years we lived in a bedroom community on Long Island, and that became a real home. Our children were born there, and we lived next door to family. I have now lived in the mountains of NC for 10 years among the best neighbors in the world. We’re out in the country, though not far from a town. I can’t imagine a better place to live. What a blessing this has been!

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