I have no righteousness within me.
I do not deserve mercy and grace. How can this be?
I stand in humble adoration of the One who gave me life.
I kneel in repentance and plead as He washes me of all the strife.
for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, being justified freely by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus…
Romans 3:23
If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
1 John 1:9
Goodbyes to those who have caused pain can be all together freeing; yet, the grief will come in waves as the broken covenant becomes a reality.
It can be all together overwhelming.
Just because the decision to leave is right doesn’t mean it will be full of joy and laughter.
Just because the need to walk away is necessary doesn’t mean the path is smooth and easy.
It can be the hardest season of life.
And the loneliest.
Yet, never doubt the resolution to remove toxicity and never return to it simply because of the sharp agony of separation.
Cry the tears that must be shed.
Weep and wail.
Rant and rage.
Then, take a deep breath and exhale.
And know that through the grief, an inner strength will grow which will extend beyond the pain.
But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away!
2 Timothy 3:1-5
Character isn’t revealed in the joyful moments.
Character isn’t unveiled in the easy, smooth, congenial patches of life.
Character gets put on display when the hard settles in like a cold, hard rain.
When the days are gray and the sunshine is hidden from view.
When the lights have been painted black and the doors have been slammed shut.
This is when character gets exposed with the spotlight of scrutiny.
These are the times when words are cheap and actions cut to the core.
So, take note what you do in the little things when the sun is bright and the crowd is loud.
Pay attention to the thoughts that harbor within the inner bays of idleness and the daydreams that yield in the hours of solitude.
For these are what will avalanche into the overflow of courage and virtue when crisis arises and all eyes are on you.
…each one’s work will become clear; for the Day will declare it, because it will be revealed by fire; and the fire will test each one’s work, of what sort it is.
1 Corinthians 3:13
A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, loving favor rather than silver and gold.
Proverbs 22:1
Sometimes, it’s just hard to deal with certain humans.
If we’re being honest, you know it’s true.
Yet, just as it’s important to walk away from toxicity and dangerous relationships, it’s also important to be able to discern those who might be in a bad mood and those who are truly damaging.
And this distinction can truly make or break a leader.
Come to the wrong conclusion, and you can damage a relationship, a ministry, a group of people, and even a home.
Assume a friend is a foe, and you lose a covenant and companion for life.
Suppose a foe is a friend, and you may walk away wounded and scarred, or worse, you can find yourself enclosed in a cage of emotion.
Presume inaccurately on either side, and you can wound the most innocent among you.
Judge incorrectly, and the grace needed to make amends can sometimes be insurmountable.
So, step carefully and evaluate slowly.
Learn to recognize warning signs and decipher welcome flags.
Acknowledge personal hangups and triggers and work harder to overcome.
Create an atmosphere of curiosity and courage and allow for input from the older, wiser sages near you.
Open your heart wide and your ears and eyes even wider.
And above all, if you believe in the One who created you, pray and ask Him to guide, not only in the final decision but to the people who can help lead you in that direction.
A friend can be hidden from immediate view because the search is always an adventure.
A foe can be veiled from initial sight because the desire for communion is always a heart’s home.
Friend or foe, learning the difference is essential.
Open rebuke is better
Than love carefully concealed.Faithful are the wounds of a friend,
But the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.Proverbs 27:5-6
Ointment and perfume delight the heart,
And the sweetness of a man’s friend gives delight by hearty counsel.Proverbs 27:9
I heard of your passing today and wondered how you’d been.
It’s been so long since I heard your voice, my memory is wearing thin.
You’d left here with a destination, hoping to ease the pain.
But where you went the agony followed, and it never stopped the rain.
I wished you well and bid farewell, for my hands could never hold.
The life you led was a restless one, so many avenues, twisted and untold.
I read in your obit all the war stories and heroism I’d never known.
The star, the medal, the accolades, even the rescue made my heart within me groan.
For this man, I wished I had met while living and breathing and very much alive.
Rather, it was the one who set off to sea on holidays and birthdays who never arrived.
My broken heart is now mended; the scar you can barely see.
Yet, somewhere deep beyond the tears, a hope of what could’ve been still remains to be.
6/4/25 MG
You were created to be you and no one else.
You were fashioned to be as He intricately designed you.
You were crafted in the image of One who loves you the most.
So, never compare, compete, or contend for another.
You were never meant to be them.
You were meant to be a better version of you.
So get busy pursuing the you He has created you to be.
Then the word of the Lord came to me, saying: “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you; Before you were born I sanctified you; I ordained you a prophet to the nations.”
Jeremiah 1:5
For You formed my inward parts;
You covered me in my mother’s womb.
I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well.Psalm 139:13-15
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