Take a pulse today.
Are you surviving or thriving?
If you’re only surviving, think it through.
Don’t accept it as normal.
Seek for change. Seek for a difference.
Fight for it.
Start thriving.
You can do this!
Therefore let us, as many as are mature, have this mind; and if in anything you think otherwise, God will reveal even this to you. Nevertheless, to the degree that we have already attained, let us walk by the same rule, let us be of the same mind.
Philippians 3:15-16
Too often, we lie down in the muck and more of what life has given us, and we choose to wallow in it.
If you are going to be more than what is behind you and beyond what is around you, you must step up, step out, and make a new path for yourself.
No one said it was going to be easy.
In fact, there will be moments when you have to fight, and kick, and claw your way out of the mud and quicksand that threatens to overtake you.
But I promise you.
If you will struggle, you will advance.
If you will resist, you will move forward.
If you will fight, you will become.
As I heard a wise man say once, “If you won’t fight for it, you don’t deserve it.”
Brawl, grapple, wrestle, clash and attack.
Survive and then thrive.
It will be well worth it.
And your children and those who love you will thank you.
But what things were gain to me, these I have counted loss for Christ. Yet indeed I also count all things loss for the excellence of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them as rubbish, that I may gain Christ
Philippians 3:7-8
Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me. Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do,forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 3:12-14
Sometimes, a self evaluation is in order.
Am I bringing out the best or worst in you?
Sometimes, a friend evaluation is in order.
Are you drawing out the magic or the madness from me?
The answers to these questions should reveal truth and reality in a way that causes our hearts to long for perfection.
Too often, we are seeking comfort of sedation so much that we settle for chaos and pain.
If I am creating turmoil and injury for your heart, I need to change or leave to bring the calm.
If you are stirring turbulence and tumult for my soul, you need to halt or be removed to bring rest.
Too often, we search for a cease fire when we should be waging war or removing ourselves from the battleground.
Peace is more important than popularity.
Stability is more important than the spotlight.
Depart from evil and do good; Seek peace and pursue it.
Psalm 34:14
Nevertheless the Lord your God would not listen to Balaam, but the Lord your God turned the curse into a blessing for you, because the Lord your God loves you. 6 You shall not seek their peace nor their prosperity all your days forever.
Deuteronomy 23:5-6
Relationships can be so complicated.
Sometimes, we stay so long, receiving abuse, pain and turmoil until we are beat to a pulp.
But we stay because we need love.
Sometimes, we remain in a tornado of split personalities, control and narcissism until we feel insane instead of calm.
But we stay because we need comfort.
Sometimes, we maintain the friendship, believing one day it will change, or worse, we’ve become blinded by the toxic norm.
But we stay because we need acceptance.
Yet, once our eyes behold truth…
There’s no backing up from reality.
There’s no returning to what was.
There’s no retreat from the withdrawal.
Sometimes, to be truly free, you must walk.
And never look back.
Seeing truth is discernment.
Knowing truth is wisdom.
Doing truth is courage.
Enduring truth is faith.
And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.
John 8:32
Therefore do not cast away your confidence, which has great reward. For you have need of endurance, so that after you have done the will of God, you may receive the promise: “For yet a little while, And He who is coming will come and will not tarry. Now the just shall live by faith; But if anyone draws back, My soul has no pleasure in him.” But we are not of those who draw back to perdition, but of those who believe to the saving of the soul.
Hebrews 10:35-39
Just a little funny mixed with truth on a Monday morning…
We need to “block out” more perfection seeking and get back to reality.
Yet, we need to seek a bit more perfection and not be “so real.”
You may be sitting there reading and think these statements are in such contradiction that they can’t possibly survive the same sentence.
But I tell you, they can thrive!
Too often in our modern culture, we are seeking such fake perfection that we lose sight of who we are and who we are meant to be.
If we could only grasp reality and allow authenticity to shine through, the outcome would be unimaginably beautiful.
Too often in our “get real” society, we are searching for such a realism that we forget that it’s sometimes kind to not leave our emotions, demands and opinions as a burden for someone else to carry.
If we could only grasp perfection in a way that allows love, faith and hope to thrive, the results would be absolutely infallible.
Why don’t we start here on this Monday morn?
Why don’t we start right here with you and me?
We can make a difference if we’d just try.
We could transform our world if we’d just begin.
Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things arejust, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things. The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you.
Philippians 4:8-9
But I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at last your care for me has flourished again; though you surely did care, but you lacked opportunity. Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content: I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Philippians 4:10-13
Charcuterie boards seem to be all the rave right now. If you’re throwing a party and want to have crowd applause, it seems you should set up at least one, or maybe two, three, five, ten of these varieties.
For those who aren’t “up to speed” in the trendy world: a charcuterie board is an appetizer typically served on a wooden board or stone slab, either eaten straight from the board itself or portioned onto flatware. It features a selection of preserved foods, especially cured meats or pâtés, as well as cheeses and crackers or bread.
Personally, I think these boards are pretty cool, when done right, but I also honestly think they are a pressure cooker of ideas, time and money that could really be put to better, more long lasting use. I know. Don’t shoot me for being “plain Jane.”
It’s not that I’ve never made one; I’ve created my fair share, and some have been fun, while a few others, I really wanted to pick up the whole thing and toss it across the room before the guests showed up.
But I do wonder sometimes, maybe more often than not, if we all live on a charcuterie board of feelings in our little worlds…
We’ve got the smooth, delicious days of promise and the mild days of mediocrity.
We have the tangy moments of adventure and the spicy moments of suspicion.
We find the bitter years of grief and the sour months of disappointment.
We discover the indulgent minutes of success and the sweet minutes of victory.
We even stumble upon the meatier times of learning, strengthening and reproving.
All the feels are contained within our small orbit of influence and experience, and unless we jump across the planes of comfort, culture and civilization, we never embark on a different charcuterie board of emotions.
Be challenged to break off from the norm.
Distance yourself from the expected and plunge just once into the unknown, the unexpected.
And I guarantee you.
The flavors of life will explode before and within you!
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.
Jeremiah 19:11
But Jesus looked at them and said to them, “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”
Matthew 19:26
Do you want to grow to maturity?
Do you want to truly succeed?
If you answered yes, then I have to ask you, “How much truth can you handle?”
Truly successful people will receive rebuke.
Truly successful people will crave instruction.
Truly successful people will seek criticism.
For if you want to reach high achievements, you have to first recognize where you are, where you were and where you are not.
This takes a great deal of humility and an even greater ability to receive truth.
So, are you a growth seeker or a truth evader?
And you shall know thetruth, and the truth shall make you free.
John 8:32
Sanctify them by Your truth. Your word is truth.
John 17:17
10/29/22
It always amazes me when I see competition among believers.
I’m not talking about healthy competitions that compares with the disciples desire to be valued in the eyes of Christ.
Some of that can spur us to greatness as we leave our laziness, apathy and fears and hunger to succeed in the Kingdom of God.
I’m talking about the raw, unheeded ambition of the carnal mind.
That desire to be great that is embraced with the hands of greed that will strangle anyone who dares to challenge.
I’m talking about that ugly, adulterated, sinful lust for power, position and prestige that is bred in the bed of jealousy, envy and pride.
When this epitome of nasty nature raises its eyes to take hold of a prize, never realizing the price paid for what is coveted…
The disasters that follow are both heart wrenching and horrifying.
No one knows the anguish filled steps that led to the other man’s mountaintop.
No one knows the sorrow that held that woman’s hand on her journey to success.
No one knows the torment of her nightmares that she finally turned into the dream.
Never suspire another man’s gain before you realize the price he paid.
You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor’s.
Exodus 20:17
Now may the God of patience and comfort grant you to be like-minded toward one another, according to Christ Jesus…
Romans 15:5
10/28/22
While strolling through a store the other day, I saw this on a leather journal.
There’s not much I could add to this words if wisdom; so, I’ll just leave this here.
Read it. Breathe it in.
Let it settle into your bones and become a part of who you are.
For, true Peace within brings all things into right focus.
You will keep him in perfect peace, Whose mind is stayed on You, Because he trusts in You.
Isaiah 26:3
10/25/22
I have read so many articles from those declaring we must love the addict, regardless of the hell they bring to you.
We must strive to be kind.
Be loving. Be sincere. Be gracious.
For they are hurting people, simply misunderstood.
I’ve read stories from daughters and sons who were straightforward and blunt with their parental addict.
Yet, once that parent is gone, the adult child grieves the loss and the “lack of love” they gave.
He states, “You never have that moment to return and be helpful.”
She states, “Once they’re gone, you live with the regrets of what you could’ve done, what you should’ve done.”
We must strive to be kind.
Be loving. Be sincere. Be gracious.
For they are hurting people, simply misunderstood.
Well, I personally must disagree with your memes-life approach.
I adamantly oppose your proclamation of fantasy.
Is not true love when we protect those most vulnerable among us?
Is not true sincerity when we call good, good and evil, evil, not the other way around?
Is not true graciousness when we recognize truth as it is and remove danger from the innocent?
I will never argue the merits of forgiveness and grace. That is what we should all give and receive unconditionally.
But truth must be embraced above all else for true healing to come.
Truth doesn’t rescind love.
Truth doesn’t nullify kindness.
Truth will bring recognition, repentance and regeneration.
Truth will bring forgiveness.
Forgiveness doesn’t always equal reconciliation, and grace doesn’t mean tolerance for depravity.
Sometimes, the kindest action of love is confrontation and consequences.
Sometimes, the kindest action of acceptance is refusal of evil and encircling good.
For in confrontation, mending of hearts can begin.
And in consequences, recoiling from harm can start.
So let us never strive for kindness at the expense of truth.
For the truth will always set one free.
And you shall know the truth, and the truthshall make you free.”
John 8:32
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