Small Southern Town

What do you love about where you live?

I love where I live because it’s beautiful, quaint, and comfortable. It’s also filled you all kinds of options. I’ve always been a “small town girl,” and while growing up, I always thought I’d live in the same small town forever, raising my kids and living in a “little white house with a little white picket fence.”

Well, God kinda had different plans for me. Since moving from my home town, I’ve lived in 2 states, 5 towns, and 1 city. I’ve gone to 3 schools, lived in 12 houses, and have been actively involved in 6 churches. And 3 of those towns have been while raising our sons. But each have been small towns, at least in the scale of metropolitan areas.

And truthfully, I’ve loved every town I’ve lived in. That’s just being content in where you are and who you’re with, but that’s another blog for another day.

So, you ask why I love where I live… it’s a small town that really has grown quite a bit since we moved here. However, we live on the outskirts of town, and we don’t normally deal with the busier side. Our city officials have taken great care to beautify the downtown, moderate what comes in and out, and worked hard to keep that “small town feel” to the area.

I love our church, the people, and the atmosphere of community and family. I love our neighborhood that is well kept, and the people are always friendly. I love that we’re located just minutes from the lake, a few more minutes from the mountains, and less than an hour from a major city. So, you can be anywhere you want within a short amount of time. And I love that we live in an area where people still long for togetherness and a sense of camaraderie among the (smaller) masses.

And I believe that’s what builds love for where you live. When it’s all about you and yours and competition, stress, strife, and success, I believe you loose that sense of community and forsake care and compassion for cutthroat self ambition and ego.

You don’t have to live in a small town to achieve this, but I think it helps. However, I’ve had friends who live living in a big city, and they have still accomplished this by creating a community of family, whether it be in their neighborhoods, churches, or workplace. Where it is doesn’t matter as much as with whom it is. If you are gathered together with likeminded people, accomplishing a common goal for a greater purpose, that sense of family and belonging will naturally arise.

So, what about you? What do you love about where you live?

Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion. Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.

Romans 12:15-18

Silly Saturday

Funny Friday

Sleep well! 😂

What’s Your Plan?

Create an emergency preparedness plan.

Creating an emergency preparedness plan will be determined by which emergency it might be.

Is it flood, fire, water spout? Is it earthquake, tornado, or tsunami?

If you’re rising high to avoid the flood plains, the tornado is going to call your name. If you’re digging under to avoid the quake, the tsunami might find its way through the tunnel. If spreading waves to avoid the flames, the water spout might feel too comfortable to join.

Emergency Preparedness Plans must be in tact for all disasters; yet, one plan is often over looked and forgotten.

What about your heart? Does your heart have an emergency preparedness plan?

This one isn’t really complicated. It doesn’t take a lot of time nor do you have to buy a thing.

Just have a little talk with Jesus. Tell Him all about your troubles. Repent of your sins, and believe.

That’s it. It’s that easy.

And you’ll be prepared for life.

You’ll be ready for anything they might come!

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.

John 3:16

Pride or Purpose?

Having purpose is so important, and it is motivating. But when your purpose becomes an attitude of competition only to put down someone else, that pride will be your downfall. That downfall may not come to you immediately, but it will come. Eventually, it will come.

Purpose should be an inner competition of better self. Purpose should be an outward vigor of thriving through hardships. purpose should be an omnidirectional display of helping someone else to achieve their dream.

When purpose meets awareness of another, that purpose becomes a superpower that is not easily stopped. When purpose meets denial of self for the life of another, that purpose becomes almost invincible.

Choose purpose over pride. Self-denial over self-absorption. Compassion over competition.

And you’ll be amazed at the world you can create.

Pride goes before destruction,
And a haughty spirit before a fall.
Better to be of a humble spirit with the lowly, than to divide the spoil with the proud. He who heeds the word wisely will find good, whoever trusts in the Lord, happy is he.

Proverbs 16:18-20

Really!

What is a word you feel that too many people use?

Really is a word that is often overused by too many people. And sometimes, I can be that people. “Really” is an adverb that is used for convenience and often, also, as my English teacher grandmother used to tell me, it’s used out of laziness.

When you say, “That elephant was really big!”, you could have used a more descriptive words and made the sentence more interesting: “That elephant was ginormous!”

We are often too lazy in our descriptions and in our speaking, and if we would use better words, our stories and conversations could be much more enjoyable and intriguing!

Silly Saturday

Funny Friday

Modern or Vintage?

Vintage or modern?

Which are you?

Traditional or trend?

Old fashioned or contemporary?

One isn’t better than the other.

One isn’t more important.

Yet, it’s the soul of the matter that counts.

If classic is your standard, yet you’re unyielding to learn something new, your rust will begin to show.

If state-of-the-art if your thing, yet you’re ridged to receive wisdom from the past, your polish will begin to chip.

Conventionalism without adjustment for change doesn’t allow for growth.

Modernization without adjustment for proven failures doesn’t allow for depth.

It takes both to progress beyond what has been.

It takes both to establish success moving forward.

Truthfully, one without the other only brings certain death to both.

 Behold, how good and how pleasant it is
For brethren to dwell together in unity!

Psalm 133:1

As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend.

Proverbs 27:17

Don’t Teach Tolerance

Not really a whole lot to add here.

It’s just good old fashioned truth.

Let’s do better. Let’s live better. Let’s be better.

Tolerance and intolerance is subjective to who’s defining it and who’s regulating it.

Good and evil is clear cut from absolute truth.

I know. Truth today has been relegated to relativity that has made it cheap and sold to the highest bidder.

But real truth, the Only Truth, can be found.

We might just have to search for it a little deeper than just below the surface…

Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, andthe life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.

John 14:6

And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth.

John 1:14

And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.

John 8:32